Are you in hot water?

 

 Hot Water 

Have you ever felt like you were in over your head…?
  
Or that you were reaching your boiling point & weren’t too sure how to gain back your sanity?

We ALL have times in our life where it feels like we have SO much going on that adding even one more thing to the mix is going to be the tipping point between sanity & pure chaos.

Over-committment is very common & can lead to feelings of chaos & overwhelm, but oftentimes, we aren’t even aware that WE are the ones creating the chaos with our willingness to commit to that which doesn’t serve us.

So, how can YOU handle staying calm & grounded during these times of chaos…?
It differs for each person but the key to maintaining that balance without going off the deep end, losing it emotionally, or being burned out by over-commitment is to allow time for yourself to decompress & unwind.

And since that looks different for everyone, you might want to ask yourself the following questions to get clarity on what works for YOU:
  
FOR REFLECTION:

For Reflection

  1. What relaxes me? Sometimes, just
     taking a few quiet moments of reflection time can be enough to escape the hustle, bustle, & noise of everyday
     life. As an example, NOT listening to the radio or music in the car is a great way to create that space!
  2. What gives me time to feel & process any emotions associated with being overwhelmed? Are you angry, resentful, bitter, exhausted? Allowing yourself to actually feel & welcome emotions that are there in the moment can sometimes be enough of a release to bring some peace back into your day. Allow time & activities that will allow you to process emotions.
  3. What rejuvenates & energizes me? The best activities are those that will fuel you for long periods of time. Learn what these activities are for you.
  4. What can I let go of to create more time for myself? This can be a tough one to do because you might have to let go of something you really want to do, so be brutally honest & challenge yourself to only take on those tasks & activities that are going to support & enhance your well-being & peace of mind.

The answers to these questions can give you some healthy options for handling those times where conflict, chaos, & over-commitment are present. Be creative & start coming up with ideas of your own today!

And, for those of you struggling with ideas, here’s one to consider – take a bath!! Soaking in a nice hot tub or hot spring can be relaxing, allows time for processing emotion, can be extremely rejuvenating, & can give you time to think about what you can let go of so that you can create more space for sanity in your life.

Check out the Self Care for the Soul video I created below that outlines the importance of taking a bath for self-care & how to create that space in a way that works for you:
Self Care for the Soul - Bath Time
Self Care for the Soul – Bath Time

 I had a great time making this video & hope you enjoy it too! :)

____________________________________________________________________________________
Want to use this article on your website or your own ezine? No problem! But here’s what you MUST include:
  
Jess Bonasso, The Self-Care Goddess, supports & empowers you to embrace your greatness & have more FREEDOM, JOY, AUTHENTICITY, & ABUNDANCE in your life simply by taking better care of yourself in all aspects of your life (physical, mental, emotional, financial, & spiritual). Using self-care strategy sessions, emotional release tools, workshops, & seminars, she will support your in EMBRACING YOUR GREATNESS! To receive a COMPLIMENTARY 30-minute exploratory coaching session (valued at over $60!) & to receive bi-monthly articles on authenticity, self-care, & how to have a RADIANT mindset, sign up for her newsletter at www.Awaken-Within.com.